There’re a lot of things that you should know about marriage counseling before you going to the session. Basically you should know that they’re very objective people and Dr. not going to typically side one person the other. Even if they think one person is completely wrong and I cannot tell them that they’re wrong because and they’re just going to end up losing the business. It’s a much better strategy to just listen and then try to improve what’s already going wrong instead of taking sides of some people. Meister’s marriage counseling can definitely help people. We’ve seen that, some marriage counselors don’t use this device and the counselor ends up taking sides of whoever they want.
For example, I have this one counselor who would always side with my wife. Meister states that he had a client that said “My wife is really pretty and I’m thinking that he just liked her”. Because he would take her side on every single thing and there’s no way that I was wrong that many times. So it’s hard for me to pick a marriage counselor this time around that’s actually going to listen to both sides of the story not automatically take someone Side when he had AHU. In fact I would actually prefer that some marriage counselors don’t take any side and they just tell us what we can start to improve. Really this weird thing when you have someone telling you how wrong you are yet you’re paying that money and help fix the solution. I know that I might’ve been the problem sometimes, but there’s no way I was the whole problem in the only problem. After all I was the one who drive her to marriage counseling so that we could get some help together.